Friday, May 3, 2013

Listen to this

       From the time you were little until now, people always told you to be yourself and not to care about what others think of you. As you get older and start to go through thinking about things differently you'll notice that some of those people who told you to be yourself are making you feel like you should change some of those little things that make up you.

      Now I'm saying this very politely, girls have their emotions right in front of their faces. So, when they get upset, they don't really realize that those people may have made them sad for a reason. Now, boys on the other hand will get upset, maybe hold a grudge and shake it off. Let me tell you, its very easy to hold everything and anything up inside of you but, from experience it helps to talk to someone wether it be a parent, family member, guidance counselor, or a friend.

      When you turn 11-13, things may seem confused and upside down, but it will all turn around. I know some people who have to go and talk to someone, like a therapist. If you feel uncomfortable talking to your parents about things that are very personal, or are things you don't want them to know, go talk to a guidance counselor or a therapist. That way if this person thinks its important to tell a parent they will, but if there is no harm or danger they have to keep it to themselves.

      Life isn't a walk in the park. There are times you do need help, and its okay to admit that you do. In fact it helps you in life. Life can be stressful and there isn't a person in the world who can tell you how to go through life. There is no right or wrong way to be who you are in life.

      With that i say: " You are a misfit born to fit, and a puzzle just waiting to be solved"
                                                                                                           - Isabella DiGesare

2 comments:

  1. Izzy, you are very insightful and wise beyond your years! Very well written and I do believe that many people would agree with what you've said. Growing up is so hard but you will see things get better and better the older you get. And the confusion will become more clear with age.

    I love reading your ramblings! They are good for your soul.... And mine :).

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